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	<title>Money magazine Comments - Ask Paul: We spoiled our youngest, now she won't leave home</title>
	<description>She's 25, lives at home, and won't pay board - has Marianne coddled her daughter too much? It's time for a tough conversation, says Paul Clitheroe.</description>
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		<title>Comment by Bryan P ()</title>
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<p><p>Do you need the money? Otherwise why else do you expect your own children to pay rent to you???</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Bryan P ()</dc:creator>
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		<title>Comment by Hayley C ()</title>
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<p><p>Bryan P - She is an adult at 25, should be working full time and paying board. She probably expects Mum to still do the cooking and washing for her too. Time to unwrap the cotton wool.</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Hayley C ()</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2025 17:06:31 +1000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment by jonas . ()</title>
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<p><p>is she ok? sounds like depression to me. you shouldn&#39;t expect the same from her as your other kids. she probably knows you favour them.</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2025 19:45:20 +1000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment by Nazrah L L ()</title>
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<p><p>By 25, I was already married and raising a family. In our culture, that&#39;s the age to set up your own home, not still be living in your parents&#39; house.</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Nazrah L L ()</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2025 21:21:25 +1000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment by Anon Ymous ()</title>
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<p><p>It&#39;s important that you and your husband find common ground here. Letting this come between you isn&#39;t healthy for either of you or for your relationship with your daughter.</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Anon Ymous ()</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 08:18:25 +1000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment by Tim Ashelford ()</title>
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<p><p>I had the pleasure of meeting Paul in a lift at the Mater Hospital around 28 April 1994. As an avid watcher of the Money show I was starstruck. Obviously our short conversation entered around our visit to our new babies. Our son got the benefit of piles of Money magazines and is a savvy investor these days. We won&#39;t mention the double garage conversation to allow a pilot to live cheaply as he was away a fair bit. Six months after completion he moved out to live with his mates. I&#39;m sure there are plenty of stories out there !</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Ashelford ()</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 08:56:37 +1000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment by John Sipple ()</title>
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<p><p>Because she&#39;s not a child, she&#39;s an adult, 25 not 15 big difference</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>John Sipple ()</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 09:23:32 +1000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment by Jacqui N ()</title>
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<p><p>This happened sister in law and has been a huge bone of contention causing family rift. All children should be treated equally within reason. I would encourage her firstly to have a budget and set the requirement of paying some board. A minimum of $50 with part time work and $100 in full time work. I would also say she has to shop and cook a family meal once a week if you are shopping and cooking for her. Have a conversation and see what her goals are, if she&#39;s not ready to settle down into a career or buy property it&#39;s time to motivate some travel abroad.</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Jacqui N ()</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2025 06:12:36 +1000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment by Robin Pankiw ()</title>
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<p><p>Oh Dear!!!! Tell your husband and daughter that you are worried about what happens if (God forbid) you and your husband are in a serious accident or are killed. Your home may have to be sold to pay costs. Assuming she is mentally and physically ok, she should definitely be more involved in cooking, cleaning, shopping, transport, gardening, maintenance, budgeting etc. She should pay her share for electricity, water, rates etc. If she does not learn how to live now, she will be vulnerable in the future when Mummy and Daddy are not able to carry the burden. Tough love is a necessary part of being good parents.</p></p><p><a href="">Reply to article</a></p><p>For original story, <a href="">Click Here.</a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Robin Pankiw ()</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2025 17:37:22 +1000</pubDate>
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