Ask Paul: Give my sister $500k to live rent-free - or invest?

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Would you hand over $500,000 to a sibling for a rent-free deal? Paul Clitheroe is sounding a warning bell at this family's plan.

Reader question

Dear Paul,

Ask Paul Clitheroe: Should I give my sister $500k to live rent-free?

I am resigning from my job shortly due to ill health. I have sold my home and now renting a unit from my sister and her de facto partner.

My sister has a mortgage on this unit, which was previously rented for $700 a week.

My sister suggested that I give her $500,000 to put into her offset mortgage account and in return, I can stay rent-free.

If I should need to go into aged care, then these funds will be used for my upkeep. - Urban

Paul's response

Warning, warning! This sounds like a lovely simple idea, Urban, but my job is to point out risk.

The $500,000 in her offset sounds very fair, she is probably paying 5.5% to 6% interest and, in effect, your contribution would effectively be about this amount. It also means she has no taxable income from you that you would pay in rent. But now to my list of problems.

How will this impact your sister if, for example, the property costs are a tax deduction for her? The ATO will take a dim view of her claiming costs with no taxable income and no taxable income for you on the $500,000.

What really concerns me is if an unexpected event happens. This could include your sister and her de facto splitting. The $500,000 would go into her offset, unless documented as a loan, it is hers. This would potentially add to her assets in a break-up. Then what happens if for whatever reason the money is taken out of the offset? How do you get this important capital back?

I know I am being a nasty person here, Urban. I'm sure you have a loving and open relationship with your sister. I find that if the downside is discussed and documented, it tends not to happen.

Before you do anything, and I'm sure your sister will agree, it is off to a solicitor to get this agreement documented so that in any catastrophe, your $500,000 is secure and comes back to you.

I apologise again, but more than 40 years of chatting to people about money, it is quite extraordinary how often things go unexpectedly wrong. Professional time with a solicitor and documenting any agreement is best for both you and your sister.

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Paul Clitheroe AM is the founder of Money and serves as the publication's editorial adviser. One of Australia's most trusted personal finance experts, Paul has spent decades helping Australians build wealth, manage debt and make smarter money decisions. He is widely known for host­ing the Money TV program and authoring best-selling personal finance books. Since launching Money in 1999, he has played a leading role in delivering practical, independent financial guidance to Australians. Paul is chair of InvestSMART Financial Services. He was the founding chair of Ecstra Foundation, a national not-for-profit focused on improving financial wellbeing, from 2018 to 2026, and led the Australian Government's Financial Literacy Board and Financial Literacy Australia from 2004 to 2019. In academia, Paul is chair in financial literacy at Macquarie University, where he is also a Professor in the School of Business and Economics. Ask Paul your money question. Due to volume, Paul cannot respond to questions posted in the comments section.
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Myra B
January 14, 2026 5.04pm

You must trust your sister a lot more than I trust mine.

January Jones
January 15, 2026 9.42am

Even if she trusts her sister can she trust the Defacto partner? The only real protection is to purchase a portion of the unit as tenants in common so that percentage is owned by her and can't be taken by the defacto in the event of a split.

Robin Pankiw
January 15, 2026 6.15pm

Oh dear! You are dealing with two other people who are not legally married (which adds to the complexity legally). The best way to ruin any family relationship is to involve money - especially without really good legal advice and documentation. Don't do anything until you get a really good lawyer who specializes in such matters.

Antonio Cuda
January 14, 2026 5.07pm

Hi Paul i am 76years old self funded retire o got three rentral I am thinking of seller them they are worth 1.5 million and give the money to to 7gramds kids and wait 5yearswhat put on for the pensionor wait under we pass away and leave to my 3kiks what do u think? I should do

thanks

Anne Hunt
January 14, 2026 9.38pm

Absolutely not .unless very very clear legal stuff in place .